I am working on a song entitled "I Don't Fit In!"
I don't fit in to a Society that accepts War as a tool of State Policy.
I don't fit into a Society that tells children what to think and applies sanctions against them for dissent against the prevailing ideology.
I don't fit in to a Society that segregates children and elders from the activities of Governance.
I don't fit in to a Society that accepts poverty as a necessary outcome of the concentration of wealth.
I don't fit in, and I am glad of it.
After many, many years of self criticism because I felt that I did not fit in, and was therefore somehow inadequate because so many others seemed to 'fit in', and also because of the frequent criticism from many others, not least people in positions of Authority such as politicians, clergy, social workers, media pundits etc, who use the term 'misfit' all too frequently, which appeared to corroborate and support that self criticism, I can finally say with utter clarity that I know why I don't fit in, and that my knowledge is absolutely evidence based and accurate.
This is not to say that 'the world we live in is rotten or horrid' - it is to say that the Earth has at this time a Dominant human Culture that is abusive, and that the self criticism I and many others experience is an internalisation of the values of that Dominant Culture, and that that internalisation is part of the self policing that culture depends upon to maintain itself.
From my experience and perspective, I say that Earth is a biologically nurturant environment, where natural processes function to improve the conditions of life, for all life, in a manner that can best be described as responsive learning leading to precise adaptations to the variations in the environment.
Here is an essay by David Smail (short video of David Smail speaking about psychological distress and depression) entitled "The Experience of School: Empowerment or Oppression" that looks at this, and contains some valuable insights into the dynamics of 'not fitting in', the aggressive attitude directed towards those who 'don't fit in', by both friends and family, by co-workers, and by Institutions and how to counter it....
What kind of human being would even want to fit it to such a Society?
Do what you love, it's Your Gift to Universe